Happy Thanksgiving! PatientsLikeMe MS Patient Spotlight: FeliciOlivar

At PatientsLikeMe, we believe in getting to know the person, not just the “patient.” That’s why we’ve decided to interview one patient each month to find out more about how he or she approaches life. This month we are pleased to feature FeliciOlivar, a two-star member.

1. What are you thankful for?
I am thankful for being able to walk. That was my worst flare of them all. I woke up one morning and fell right down to the floor. As devastated as I was that my worst fear had come to be, I didn’t let anyone know that I was petrified at not being able to walk or do anything for myself. It was a horrible time for me, but I was determined that I was going to be able to walk again. I’m glad that I can walk even if I do still trip over my own feet. I’m also thankful for the family that stood behind me through that tough time.

2. What do you have in abundance in your life?
I have laughter. If you cannot laugh at yourself, then what are you going to do? I laugh at myself all the time, if I don’t I’ll cry over nothing. The stumbles, the forgetfulness and the anger at my body turning on me after I gave it the best cookie dough in the world, this is the thanks I get. See, you have got to laugh at stuff like a fork flying out of your hand at the most elegant restaurant and running out before the food fight starts. It’s the best medicine.

3. Describe a typical Thanksgiving in your family.
We usually travel home and visit everyone, but this year we aren’t able to do that due to certain problems that have arose (i.e. gas, car repairs), so we will have to have Thanksgiving right here at home (scary since I’m cooking). The highlight is usually seeing my son eat a turkey drumstick. We take a picture every year. I hope he’ll be able to eat one this year without an ambulance ride.

4. What are your interests and hobbies?
I truly, simply enjoy nature. I love watching birds and seeing the pretty ones. Until I lived in a rural place, I had rarely seen all the birds that I’ve seen in the past year. I also like photography. I haven’t gotten a real good grasp on it, but I usually take pictures of the birds that I’m spying on. This would go hand and hand with scrapbooking that I love so much. I don’t do it much now because it’s an expensive hobby. I would like to learn to do needle work like needle point, knitting and crocheting. I like to keep busy.

5. What accomplishments are you most proud of?
I’m most proud of just being a mother. It’s hard when I have bad days, but my son knows why I don’t feel well. This past month hasn’t been good for me going through Optic Neuritis. Having one eye is not easy.

6. What are your top three motivators in life and why?
Prayer, my family and friends (count as one) and the online group that I belong to, The Urban Multiple Sclerosis Alliance. Prayer helps keep me sane. I can’t make it without prayer. My family and friends are there for me no matter what, even though at times I just want to be alone. And the group, well they understand everything I’m going through. It’s a blessing to have someone around and not have to explain what “Coggies” are (cognitive problems). Don’t you just love that nickname?

7. Which PatientsLikeMe patients have you enjoyed getting to know?
I haven’t been posting here a lot so I hadn’t got to know anyone yet, but looking at the message boards, I love seeing someone post about something that I thought only I had to deal with. It’s a great comfort to know that you are not the only one who is not in control of your body or who can’t remember anything about the previous day. It’s great that there is always a place you can go where people just like you (or at least similar to you) exist.

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